Today is her birthday..okay it is in 45 more mins

Okay, it's 11:16 PM.............44 more minutes and it is her birthday....give a girl some grace, would ya!!!!!  I'm excited!!!!

This precious little girl has waited so patiently for this day...she has longed for it cause she will be bigger.  She desperately wants to be bigger.  She has sat through Daddy's birthday, Ethan's Birthday, Momma's birthday and even Rea's....but the time has come.  TODAY IS HER DAY!!!!

I have so many emotions....I mean this week.......this week is big............Let me give you some background.....

Last year on Good Friday we were blessed beyond compare to see her sweet face........(yes, I know the actual dates are different - but I know God loves me enough to give me an amazing reminder, otherwise known as GOOD FRIDAY to remember clearly the date I first saw our precious girls' face.)  Combine that with her actual birthday and this girl is a MESS!!!!!

It's more emotional than I expected.....It's filled with more than I ever expected........I can't believe God loves me enough to allow and trust me to be her momma...........I'm simply so undeserving.......I mean, have you seen her? I don't know why He loves me enough to share her with our family........I don't mean to sound dumb and I definitely don't want to downplay the fact that at times it is hard, very hard..............but goodness gracious,  I love that girl.  I love her so big and with so much of me that at times it can physically be painful (it is like that with all three of my children)

Tonight as I tucked her in and we prayed I cried....(shocking, I know) but I cried for what birthdays will mean for her.......I know that as she grows she will wonder, she will question......she will mourn what could have been and what should have been, what I don't know....how I don't the time she was born....I don't know the details of her first moments, I don't have anything that will help with the first three years of her life .....then to top it off she will examine the selfless love that her birth momma gave her.  

I mean, come on - it's kinda obvious, I didn't carry her in my womb and I don't know her life prior to this moment.....(the pic below is from the day that we met her)

(maybe it's wrong but I do get a good laugh when people who don't know see us in Wal-mart and try to figure it out....come on people, white lady, black child.......it's not that complicated!)

but i know that at the very moment she was conceived - she was meant for our family!  The only answer for that is God's hand......I can't give you any other reason....and let's be truthful, there isn't one.  God had a plan for this girl before she was ever conceived in her birth momma's belly and it was to be our girl.  

I love this precious girl and it blows my mind that she loves us too...........

Defeated vs empowered

It's funny, I do this blog and well to be honest.....

and come on - if I am anything - it's honest

it's not self-promotion.......

I know, right?  that right there is shocking...........

it's really not.  As much as I love Fran (and I do love me some Fran Runner)

it's about the faces..........

Orphans are easier to ignore before you know their names.  They are easier to ignore before you see their faces.  It is easier to pretend they’re not real before you hold them in your arms.  But once you do, everything changes.”

I did that......I met them.  I held them.  I learned their names.  I loved on them.  I prayed over them.

yep, those faces.

I read something today that said, 'I don't do it for the attention'.

it kinda kicked me in the belly.........why exactly am I vocal about adoption, Maggie and our journey?

I did a little internal investigation - is it me that wants, that thrives on 'attention'

the answer to that is clearly, yes (PLEASE HEAR ME OUT)

it is - on a lot of things.............

this is not one.

Orphans.

Little beings in this world, (147 million) faced with doing it all - alone.........if I don't speak for them, can you tell me who will?

They simply can't.   You know why?  Cause they are trying to survive........

and me, well, I have more.  More than I need.  More than I deserve and enough to share.

With the grace and power of our God, I pray that maybe, God willing, me not being silent in order to avoid ruffling feathers of people..............allows children to not only have a voice, but find their forever home......

so you know what?  yeah, I'm not shutting up...........

one more thing....Easter Sunday we as American's go to church, spend more than the average family (globally) has in a weeks/month or years time on a special outfit........

this year - my family is going to spend it on buying outfits from local families adopting.........and guess what - we are gonna match!!!!  (yay us! - and yes, insert a lil' bit of sarcasm)

If you want to participate - buy from a family you know in the process

If you need some names - I got a few

The Pinnicks (they don't have a blog or a FB account - LAME - O) but you can respond here and I will hook you up!  (I love you Josh and Amanda - but come on get a stupid FB or blog already!)  :)

The Thompsons, (LOVE this couple) click here.....they will get you some t-shirts and will accept any help you can offer to help them bring their child home

The Davis's, (awesome people and friends)  They are waiting to be matched with a child (or children) from China - and well -  you would look cool sporting their shirt too.....email me and I will get them to you.  :)

I have a few more friends who may not have shirts yet, but they are on their way.......so pray about it..

JCPenney says they need your money for a fancy outfit...........but come on!  they just spread the greed..........let's spread the love......... help bring a kid home to love, shelter, food, nourishment and above all Jesus...........and wear it on Easter Sunday.  If you want to read what ignited this fire....click here.

Look at it this way, I don't want you to miss out on a blessing, your welcome :)

 

There are moments when I realize that people can say things much better than I....this is one.  I hope you enjoy!  You know me, so if I made a comment in this blog post I it will look like this  :)

if you would like to read the blog post directly from the source and miss out on my random comments, click here....  PS so we are clear - I realize a good majority of you would wish I would just stop talking about adoption......sorry!

Look at it this way, I don't want you to miss out on a blessing, your welcome :)

Forgotten Fridays: A broken system full of brokenness

Today I want to deal with the call to foster care and adoption(international, domestic, 
and any other way it can happen).  This is a ministry

I feel many are called to, yet few answer the call. 

Often times we think or say "It is a broken system full of corruption, 

how can I make a difference?"  Well you can be the one that isn't corrupt.  

If it is international adoption you can make sure that your child isn't a 

trafficked child.  You can do this by making sure your agency is upstanding and 

does due diligence some people even hire their own personal private investigator. 

check out LifeLine and ask for Leslie :) If you are going to adopt domestically 

through the foster care system you can be that safe family.  You can be the 

one that stands up for what is right.  The LORD never 

promised that when he called us into ministry it would be safe.  

In fact it is just the opposite.  We are living a life devoted to the LORD.  

It isn't comfortable or safe when you love with your whole heart, but it is 

full of purpose and blessings.  In Roman times unwanted children were left to 

die in fields and on the side of roads, Christians adopted these children and 

at the risk of death.  I think that the risks we are taking are far smaller then 

some of our ancestors. 

In response to fear we should turn to God's word for answers.

Isaiah 41:10  So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, 

for i am your God.  I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you 

with my righteous hand.

Isaiah 41:13  For I am the LORD your God, who takes hold of your right 

hand and says to you Do Not Fear; I will  help you.

Isaiah 43:1-2 But now, this is what the LORD says he who created you, 

O Jacob, he formed you, O Israel: "Fear not for I have redeemed you;

I have summoned you by name; you are mine.  When 

you pass through the waters , I will be with you; and when you pass 

through the rivers they will not sweep over you.  when you walk through 

the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.

Do you believe these promises? (ouch!)  If you do then the call should 

not bring up fear, but anticipation for what the LORD will do through you.

International or domestic you are dealing with a broken system because this

 is a broken world.  Don't run the other way because the system is broken.  

The children in the system need you. They need love, they need hope, 

they need healing.  Brokenness should draw you in because 

the answer to brokenness lives in you and through you.

I could put all the verses that talk about defending the fatherless 

and taking care of the orphan but you already know that list is endless.  

So I will just put one verse up that I think sums it all up.

James 1:27a  Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and 

faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress...

I was at an adoption prayer group the other day and two ladies shared 

what their husbands said about adopting "Our lives are too easy, 

our lives are not meant to be easy."  I thought this was 

such a neat way to look at life.  Why are we always looking to make 

our lives easier?  The LORD did not call us to an easy life. 

He did not call us to a life free from hurts. What He did promise was to 

redeem and bring beauty from ashes.  He also promised to be with us as

we walked through trials.

The orphan issue can be overwhelming when we look at the numbers, 

so don't look at the numbers anymore just resolve to make a difference

in just one orphans life.  I challenge you to just take in one orphan if you 

are feeling called.  Maybe it will be through foster care, or maybe you will travel to 

Ethiopia or Russia.  It may be a baby or a teenager.  Maybe you know a teenager 

who may not be up for "adoption" in the legal sense but you know they are 

lacking a family.  There are so many ways this can look. (I do always lean on -

 both husband and wife have to agree that they want to adopt - no forcing or guilt trips -

patience Grasshopper.   It took a year of prayers from my hubby and God to 
open my heart.)  

You can adopt not because you have the ability or the time but because 

The LORD will equip you.

I will give you an out - if you know that adoption isn't right for you and if you live in 
Bardstown or surrounding area - you can help 
support Maggie's Hope.  If you want to give a tax deductible donation simply 
send a check to Lifesong For Orphans to help fund grants or no interest loans 
(If you want it to go to Christian Families in our local area please
put P335 in the memo and help Parkway Baptist Church grow their fund!)

6 months and a video!

Maggie has officially been in the states for 6 months!!!!  Can I say, we love her.  I often hear how amazing it is that she seems to have been created for us.  It's true, she fits perfectly into our lives - we have been blessed.
She is sassy, strong-willed and such a little girl.

Blake Sapp (one of my most favorite college students made this video for us!) I had to share.